Wednesday, April 17, 2024

A Journey of Humility: From Conflict to Reconciliation

 As we reflect on the theme of humility and its transformative power, it's often in our own personal journeys that we find the most profound lessons. For me, this theme hits close to home, as it has brought to light a recent experience that challenged me to confront my own pride and stubbornness, and ultimately led to a journey of repentance and reconciliation.

At the end of last year, my son and I had a disagreement. Despite the gentle nudges from my wife and family, who lovingly pointed out that I was in the wrong, I stubbornly clung to my own perspective and failed to truly listen. Instead of humbly acknowledging my mistake and seeking reconciliation, I chose to brush the incident under the rug and carry on with our lives as if nothing had happened.

But as I prepared for this month's theme on humility, guided by the verse from Proverbs 11:2, the Holy Spirit convicted me with a gentle but undeniable conviction. It was a reminder that humility requires us to acknowledge our faults and seek reconciliation, even when it's uncomfortable or humbling. As a pastor, I am called to lead by example, and I knew that I needed to heed the call to humility in my own life.


Turning to Colossians 3:12-14, the words resonated deeply within my heart, and a series of reflections began to take shape. It became clear to me that humility isn't just a theoretical concept to be discussed from the pulpit; it's a lived experience, a journey of transformation that requires us to confront our own pride and ego, and to extend grace and forgiveness to others.

And so, with a humble heart and a spirit of repentance, I reached out to my son. I admitted my fault, expressed my sincere regret for the way I had handled the situation, and sought his forgiveness. It wasn't easy to humble myself in this way, but the peace and reconciliation that followed were more than worth it.

As I reflect on this journey, I am reminded of the words of James 4:6: God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. Humility isn't about weakness or defeat; it's about strength and courage, the strength to confront our own shortcomings and the courage to seek reconciliation and forgiveness.

As we continue on this journey of humility together, I am excited to announce that there will be a blog series over the next few days that will bless you. Throughout this series, we will delve deeper into the transformative power of grace and reconciliation. Let us humble ourselves before God and others, seeking forgiveness and extending grace to those we have wronged. May our lives be a testament to the transformative power of humility, as we journey towards strength and reconciliation in our relationships and communities.